The Fear Beneath Estrangement

The Fear Beneath Estrangement

Estrangement is layered with grief, confusion, and longing—but beneath it all is fear.
The fear of being misunderstood. Of lost time. Of failing at the role that once defined you.
This piece explores the quiet, unseen weight estranged mothers carry—and the moment when unraveling can become rebuilding.

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7 Ways to Improve Your Relationship with Your Adult Child

7 Ways to Improve Your Relationship with Your Adult Child

Parenting doesn’t end when your child turns 18—but the relationship definitely shifts. If you're feeling the ache of distance, tension, or silence with your adult child, this post offers 7 powerful ways to reconnect. From communication tips to faith-filled encouragement, you'll find hope and practical tools to help rebuild the relationship your heart still longs for.

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“You give terrible advice.”

“You give terrible advice.”

Parenting teens is a constant balancing act—knowing when to speak and when to stay silent. In this post, I share a raw moment with my high schooler that started with laughter and ended with him storming off after telling me I give “terrible advice.” Sound familiar? This season of motherhood is full of emotional highs and lows, but it's also where deep connection, grace, and growth happen. If you're navigating the tension between guiding and letting go, this one's for you.

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When They Leave and When They Come Back
Nicole Coates Nicole Coates

When They Leave and When They Come Back

And yet, when the son came home—broken, with nothing left—his father didn’t meet him with judgment or criticism. He didn’t say, “I told you so,” or remind him of his mistakes. Instead, the father ran to him with open arms, full of compassion and love.

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